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1st - living in an answered prayer

2nd - timing is everything

3rd - love's never lost 

I know there are times we find ourselves thinking about lost time, lost efforts, and lost love. But as Taylor Swift wisely said, “Love’s never lost when perspective is earned.” It’s a reminder that even in loss, there’s something to be gained—a deeper understanding, a clearer perspective, a chance to grow. 

4th - going home feels different now

5th - i am where i am supposed to be

6th - wait

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7th - hold on

8th - i am so much more

9th - God sends help

Here's the last glorious sunset I've captured using my now lost phone. 

Right when this month started, I've read on Threads about the October Theory: for some people, this month is "an alarm to make certain changes before the year is over"; a time when people "decide what things need to be set into motion". 

I was excited for October since I knew there was so much in store. My weekends were fully booked with gigs: Clara Benin and I Belong to the Zoo at Jess & Pat's, the Over October concert, a science communication workshop, Women's Run PH, and a SPIT show. I was saying yes to every invitation that fit my schedule. Between these, I was making progress with my thesis experiments, unexpectedly leading a team on a business proposal, tutoring, cooking meals for everybody at home, volunteering to help with orientation for first-year students, and squeezing in training sessions for my upcoming run.

This was my way of embracing change before the year’s end—a commitment to growth. I didn’t want to miss a single opportunity, knowing that by this time next year, I might be in a completely different season. Every task brought a sense of purpose, and it was satisfying to tick each one off my list. It felt good that things were in my control.

How I managed to show up for everything, and how things always seemed to work out, I can only attribute to the Lord’s presence with me every step of the way. Every ounce of strength I needed, every word I struggled to find, His grace was there, carrying me through.

 

The joy of completing my first 10K at the Women's Run was quickly overshadowed by the grief of losing my phone—which, as it turns out, was stolen. It all happened in less than 5 minutes-- when all you thought you were safe around women (grabe new fear unlocked!!!). Just a simple compromise and the day dragged on with a series of anticlimactic events I have never imagined I would witness in my life. Things totally were not in my control. Traumatized and drained, my roommates and I could not talk about it for three days.

When life is going well, it’s easy to lift our hands and give God all the glory. But when things go off-script, when setbacks hit us, it’s tempting to ask, 'Where is God in all this?' or 'Why me?' My roommate even said, half-joking, 'Maybe we were just too happy at yesterday’s SPIT show—now we’re paying for it.'

Despite it all, I know He was with me in those situations-- He gave me very caring roommates who did not think twice to help me; He sent us police officers who treated us well; He sent someone from the run who has the same case as mine (while it's unfortunate that there's another victim, it's comforting to know that someone can relate to all these dumb feelings); He was there to protect us from further violence that could have happened if things had escalated. His grace still has carried me.

1 Peter 5:10
And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm, and steadfast.

With just three months left in the year, there are still so many goals left unchecked. As someone who thrives on having everything planned, uncertainty is my greatest adversary. Anxiety is my nightly companion, pulling me into non-existent conversations. My internal thoughts wake me more than my night owl roommate, who rummages through her notes, studying for her exam.

I plan to avoid failure. I mentally rehearse worst-case scenarios so I can prevent them. I script my future conversations to avoid shame. I anticipate people's reactions to shield my heart from rejection. I read people too much. I think too much.

But today, I was reminded during Sunday Service—God is sovereign. 

Every time I hear the story of the Tan-Chi family’s darkest day in their lives and what happened to Joy Tan-Chi, it brings me to tears. In 1992, the Tan-Chi children were held hostage in their home, and Joy was raped by seven men while her parents, Ptr. Peter and Deonna, were leading a Bible study somewhere. It’s a stark reminder that even those close to God, those who serve Him, are not immune to trials and suffering.

What struck me most today was Carolyn, the youngest daughter, who—traumatized by the event—grew up locking all her doors and windows. She once asked her mother, “How will I know if God will never allow the robbery and rape to happen again?”

That question lingers: What if, after all my careful planning, God allows my worst fears to come true? What if, after all the waiting, heartbreak still finds me? What if, after all the striving, setbacks could still unfold? Believing in God’s sovereignty means accepting suffering, too.

But who am I to question God? 

Even Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego stood firm before Nebuchadnezzar, saying:

"If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to deliver us. 

But even if He does not, we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up." - Daniel 3:16-18

Even Job never blamed God even if everything he owned and every kin he has was taken away. I could never fathom the pain Job had to go through all of that, I would never survive. But,

He said, “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, And naked I shall return there. The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the name of the Lord.” - Job 1:21

And Jesus, the son of God, was not exempted from suffering and died on the cross to save us from our sins. Instead, He also surrendered to His Father's will,

saying, “Father, if You are willing, remove this cup from Me; yet not My will, but Yours be done.” - Luke 22:42

How profound is their faith! I pray to have a faith like theirs--- deep, rooted, refined. Always reminding myself, that even in suffering, failures, rejections, and heartaches, His control remains. He is still sovereign.

Deonna could not tell and promise her daughter Carolyn that God will never allow the bad things to happen again, but rather tells her to shift her focus-- it's not in the absence of problems our security lies, but in the presence of God.

"... But they who seek the Lord will not lack any good thing." - Psalm 34:10

This is one of my recent early morning shots while comet-watching. As a fan of astronomical events, I eagerly awaited the chance to glimpse Comet Tsuchinshan-Atlas. Despite the cloudy, polluted, skyscraper-blocked skies of Metro Manila, I was still hopeful.

I prayed to see the comet.. But even if not (and I didn't haha), at least I was blessed with this view—rays of the rising sun piercing through the clouds, while I had a quiet, personal moment with my Maker.

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Sharing the CCF Sunday Service on October 6, 2024 so that you'll also be blessed! ❤

I woke up early today to catch up with my training backlogs. Should I do a speed run, recovery run, or a 5k run? Four weeks away from the race day, I still don't know if I can finish this 10k run. I could not care less about achieving a 'sub 1' in my first 10k run yet-- I just want to finish it without injuries. Ano ba tong pinasok ko, Lord. 😭  

Even with less carb loading from the night before, I still decided to do a 5k recovery run today. People think that running is just an easy sport, but there are actually many things needed to pay attention to... but me, I'm just too focused on what music I should play while running hahahah but this time I try to focus on my landing. I was told that I might not have a good form that's why I get shin splints every time I run. Probably it was true but I actually can't imagine what they're trying to say. 

2k in, and after some experimenting, I think I got the good form because my legs did not hurt. In the next 1k, I try to focus on my breathing, baka nakalimutan ko ng huminga. Haha the thing with running, for me, the hardest part is when you're just halfway. It's so tempting to give up and give yourself a pat on your back, "at least you showed up today". It's also tempting to just do the all-too-familiar route. But not today! I was doing a good job, gurl, way to go. Or so I thought.. 

And a random thought came into my mind, someone sent us a video of my parents having fun on a ride in Mugna (a park with rides every September in Iligan) and taking a video of themselves. I was so emotional watching the video yesterday-- they were having a good time together. My parents who are too dedicated in their work on weekdays and very busy in the household chores on weekends, still found some time to go out and have fun even without us. 😭😭😭

I captured the picture above while I was at the backseat of our car. A week before going back to Manila, I asked my dad that he should be the one to teach my mom to drive already. He should endure the stress and anxiety and be beside her, guide and teach her how to drive because I will not be there to teach her na. At the end of the practice drive, they were so happy that they forgot that I'm there, my dad exclaimed 'Thank you Lord' and they shared a kiss!! Hahahah aaahhh so glad I was there to witness it. 

I thank the Lord that He is not just faithful in my life but also in my mom and dad's lives. I hope and pray they will have more years pa and always have good health so that they could do more dates on their own. I think they are having their time of their lives again now that they are alone together hahaha may their love for each other continue pa and I'll always hold on to these good memories. ❤

And my 5km run was done! I was shocked that ending it turned out to be so easy and I feel like I could run more. Indeed, as Peter Pan said, 'just think of happy thoughts and you'll fly'.